Face to Face vs PBeM
This is like the difference between nibbling on stale bread in a cold dark lonely prison cell compared to an intimate diner with Jennifer Anniston as the Boston Pops plays in the courtyard out of sight behind walls of the most extensive wine racks ever filled.
Face to Face is the way this game was designed to be played. It calls upon the totality of your skills, be they tactical, strategy, negotiation, reading people, speed of the read, awareness of the subtle minds' shifts, operation under time pressure, combining social and psychological skills as well as a full understanding of the relationship of the game in question within any greater dynamic be it a tournament or a social event.
In a Face to Face game you have to master yourself first, and move about the room(s) holding in your mind the ever updated multi dimensions of the players, their personalities goals and perception of their skills and self awareness. You can glance at the board at the end of an adjudication and the pieces seem to fade into an image of a distant galaxy each one with swirl of arms of possibilities within a universe of gravitational fields that you can shift and compact to extend or contract with a word, a gesture or subtle pause between reflections that build for each other player a different view encased as they are in a tight world of their own interest as seen through the astral planes of your creation. For you instantly know where you want them all to move to and how to get them there. Then when the evening drifts on , the map and pieces, cast no shadow and almost becoming irrelevant to the flow of the game you can look back and remember a time like no other that even those who have not grasped the final center still recall a wonderful night that is without compare in the gaming world.
I love the game Face to Face.