@ cteno4, I must thank you for your well argued and considered response. Just a small point which does a little to detract from you argument is that I initially used the term - ''Abrahamic religions'' rather than Christianity. It got derailed in the thread, I will not, however, berate you for not reading the thread and forcing me to repeat myself. :-)
I guess most, if not all religions, have or had an element of conversion and compulsion in their make up. Of course in sociological terms this is not restricted to religion, it forms a rather unplesant aspect of most human activity. The question then remains what explains the success of the Abrahamic religions in particular? My view, for what it is worth, is that they extended the concept of altruism beyond the hunter-gather/kin group. For all of their imperfections, and I agree that these were/are many, this is a key idea. I think that in the context of the world of 1.5, 2,3 and 4 thousand years ago it was unique, or perhaps expressed in an uniquely powerful way. I ponder most days where did this strength originate?