"What you are talking about is akin to claiming a free-trade deal between the US and Panama is somehow fair, implying Panama and the US are peers economically."
A free trade agreement isn't "fair" or unfair. Its the democratization of trade. You don't have to be equals to draft a free-trade agreement. If anything, Panama would benefit more than the US since they could easily undercut the price of any US firm and their goods would be cheaper on the market and thus would be bought. Their firms would get money that otherwise would have gone to US firms. And yes, the US would open up a new market to export to as well and might kill a budding auto industry or something, but it should all equal out and both nations should prosper.
To Holy: You are forgetting many other nations that are currently doing well: Tanzania, Ethiopia, Kenya, Uganda, Ghana, and a few others I may be missing. I think what you were sloppily trying to convey is that corruption has become so ingrained in their culture that it has become a norm there, and real development cannot occur until that norm is changed. However, cultural differences means that Africa will never develop like the West has (and by that I mean in the same way the West did). My professor was talking about it today in our constructivism lecture. He came back from Afghanistan recently, and we were talking about how the Afghan people aren't really rioting over this "massacre" of 16 villagers, while they did riot by the thousand against the Quran burnings. This is because they rationalize violence differently. He said that they're of the opinions that some Afghans are like "They killed my nieces and nephews, but my brothers and I plant IEDs and ambushed a few of their patrols, so we are equal" Killing isn't a tragedy there, where retribution is the culture and frankly they are satisfied by retribution.
Back to Africa though, you're wrong to say the West will fix things. Yes, the West messed them up in the first place by splitting up tribes and such and persecuting one sect over another. But that was how they kept their power. Its a bad thing in modern eyes, but back then it was viewed as perfectly acceptable. We must be careful at judging past events with a modern lens. Yes, these actions would be unacceptable today and when viewed with a modern perspective they are unacceptable, but to our forefathers it was just the norm.
But I digress. Holy, if you're smart, you'll get a scholarship. Apply to schools out of state as well, and just try your best. I'm going to a private school at state school price (which for New York is pretty high). On the affirmative action tidbit, I'm against it. Race should not be a factor. There is no reason that a girl I knew (who got lower SAT scores, had a lower class rank and GPA, was in easier classes, and was involved in less activities and clubs than I was) should have gotten into Harvard while I was put on a waitlist and denied. I think that lower-income people should be afforded that priviledge, because I see firsthand how horrible the DC public school system is in the poorer areas of town. They don't get as good of an education and thus aren't living up to their full potential. They are the ones who need and deserve the extra boost from society.