AHA! THERE'S krellin's magnum opus on Miley!
"We *bash* Miley Cyrus because we are tired of her overt (heterosexual) displays"
...I'll put that one up to a vote...to be honest, I just find her a talentless hack singing-wise, I couldn't give a shit about her "Look at my flat ass!" displays...it's...a flat ass...yay? I have no opinion beyond "Your ass isn't that exciting," so I'm criticizing her for being a bad singer, not for being overtly sexual, she can be as sexual as she wants--she just has to back it up with talent for me to give a shit.
"But is a fucing homo were to ass-fuck his pal on a wrecking ball everybody would quiver in fear of criticizing it for fear of “gay bashing”."
If that "fucking homo" sang as badly as Miley Cyrus does, I'd be right in line with you bashing him or her, krellin.
Also, lest I forget--
We are bashing Miley/Hypothetical Gay Singer because of their lack of talent, ie, for WHO they are, bad performers...YOU are bashing gays for what they are, ie, what your oh-so-loving God has MADE them to be (and the science is there to say it's a natural condition, so unless you want to risk a science-fail, please don't come back with "Nope, people choose to be gay. If you're mad at the overtness, again--why can Stallone be overtly hetero but Elton John can't be a flaming gay?)
About the closest I'll come to agreeing with you is it is a bit irritating that every LGBT star expects applause for coming out...that IS A bit grating (and I live near LA, home of Entertainment Tonight and like programs, so that's on the news every other night, it seems.)
Even there, for some people it's scary...so maybe they want support...
But yeah--it shouldn't be a goddamn parade every time someone comes out.
Come out, and let them be treated equally like everyone else.
This is frankly a product of the 1970s, when the only way to be gay and be heard WAS to be "flaming"...the same way a lot of feminists of that period were out-and-out feminists and couldn't go two seconds in their literature without showing off how feminist they were.
Nowadays we're more accepting, and they don't need to do that to get noticed or be accepted, however...
So why not let them marry and be equal?