"Show me where I misunderstood the claim that skinny people are the smart kids in class."
It wasn't about skinny, it was about EFFORT--
Those who have put in the EFFORT to work out and try and eat correctly and thus put at least some care towards their bodily appearance and health and thus, yes, are more toned as a result I liken to the kid who studies hard and is thus the smart kid in class...
Those who eschew taking care of their bodies entirely (ie, those very chain-smoking junk food aficionados who you mentioned earlier) and put no EFFORT into working out or eating well or taking care of themselves physically or medically, THOSE people I liken to the lazy lumpen sods in the back of class who may as well be clods of dirt for all they know and all they try.
Notice something, though--
I DID NOT mention skinny or fat there.
If you prefer a rounder body shape, and still work to make sure you're not in danger of diabetes or heart disease or eating more than a Rwandan child will get in two months in two days...
Guess what? YOU'RE IN SHAPE! You're FINE! No problems there!
You're putting in EFFORT in regards to your body, and you're not being insecure about it...well done!
You can be fit without being built like Tom Brady...
Hell, Babe Ruth was probably the most famous "fat" sports star this side of the NFL...
And he's one of our most beloved heroes in American sports, AND, while I doubt the Babe could've done a sit-up if his life depended on it, for all the beer he loved to swig and all the hot dogs he loved to eat, he STILL had to take care to be sure his upper body strength was there, and had to work at that, so even the Babe to an extent looked after his bodies, and guess what?
Playing baseball, he got something most Americans no longer get:
EXERCISE!
The Babe burned some of those calories going outside to play ball, no matter what anyone said about how undeniably fat he was!
And that's my point--
The smart kid and fit kid...they can be smart and fit in different ways and aspects--
I'm smart (to an extent, anyway) in English, and yet awful in math...
abgemacht's great with math; I don't know how he is with English, probably good there too, but in any case, there are different fields to be "smart" in, and as long as you're trying to improve and gain some sort of knowledge and pass classes, no matter how poor you are at them, you're fine.
Same with physical fitness--
Doesn't matter if you're built like Rocky or the Babe--as long as you're eating healthy foods to some extent, or exercising to some extent, or playing sports, or at least CARING about how you look, AS LONG AS YOU'RE AT LEAST TRYING, you're fine.
Those who DON'T are the dumb clods in the back of class and the unfit people.
And I'm sorry, as much as you hate it--
ACCORDING TO *ABILITY,* NOT NEED.
I don't get to tell those with mathematical ability to leave because it will make me, flailing me feel better about my failures...
LIKEWISE,
While it's a private establishment and they can do it if they like, it does not garner my sympathy for the unfit to shriek to the fit "GO AWAY, YOU'RE BEING FIT IS LOWERING OUR MORALE AND MAKING US FEEL BAD FOR EATING THOSE 5 BIG MACS YESTERDAY" (or, if we're going to be fair and show skinny folks can be unfit too) "GO AWAY, YOU'RE BEING A NORMAL BODY WEIGHT IS MAKING ME FEEL BADLY FOR EATING AT ALL TODAY!"
Just to show anorexics are no more healthy than the overweight--
And NEITHER get my support or sympathy over those who've actually put the thought and time into actually caring for their bodies.