Nice to see several players speaking up with an alternative point of view.
Here is my story: I used to invest a lot of my personal time organizing informal live games, recruiting people from a combination of real life friends, people I know from the Forum here, people who I know from other games I've played here and people who just kind of randomly wander in.
Too many times, some person or other forgot to log on for the game so their country CDs. To make matters worse, one or two other players start hemming and hawing to cancel the game. And then belittling people who don't want to cancel. And then bullying people who don't want to cancel.
The thing is, if we cancel, I don't receive any return on all of the time that I spent organizing a game. As one or two players have commented, since I stopped organizing live games, there have been far fewer lives games.
Why don't players accept that if you show up for an open live game, you're basically getting the dregs of the community? Of course people are going to CD. Of course people are going to NMR. Of course people are going to want to quit early if they start to loose. Of course metagaming and cheating is bound to occur in these games.
As I predicting, acting snobbish about it is acerbating the problem. If things get much worse we will loose the critical mass of players needed to even have a community here.
I also wish that most players would understand exactly how awesome all of the supposedly "low quality" games on this site actually are. The first twenty (or so) years that I played Diplomacy, I never once finished a game because I was playing with people who were (almost exclusively) casual gamers.
This site would be great if we would let it, but a large part of that in my opinion is becoming more tolerant of the various eccentricities of the nerdy people here, as well as trying to make the most out of each and every game, *especially* the ones with absences or problem players.
And if that's too much work for you, no one will really fault you for dropping out of a game early because there aren't seven people playing and because the game is "imperfect." But please let the rest of us play. Some of us are quite busy in real life and have few enough opportunities to sit down with a group of dudes and enjoy a nice Diplomacy match, even if there are only four or five players.
Thank you.