...Yeah...no--I'm not buying it.
Our ideology isn't "democracy" any more than the New York Yankees' ideology is "win the World Series."
I mean, isn't that the "ideology" of, well, most of the West and a fair portion of some non-Western states? Seems rather too broad...certainly we've had a good deal of rhetoric about spreading and "making the world safe for" democracy...
But again, that's not exactly unique to America--other nations have done this.
I'd submit that the reason we're bombing them isn't to spread democracy so much as to quell something we dislike, namely, certain regimes and other ideologies.
I must take issue with one other thing, however--
"I'll say it anyway: you want democracy. They don't."
Nonsense. And I know that's a lofty and bold-bordering-on-rash response...but do you honestly think that, say, those living in North Korea don't want a different form of government?
The ones who have been lucky enough to escape would seem to differ.
The numerous demonstrations throughout the Middle East--failed or no--would seem to differ.
I'm not saying that democracy is some sacrosanct idea that all must embrace (though as unpalatable as pushing your beliefs on someone else might be, I do have to say that when faced with a choice between freely-elected government and ruthless autocracies, you're going to find a minority, and an increasingly-small one at that, who'd prefer the latter over the former if given the choice) but the right to self-rule and elementary freedoms which democratic states (generally) allow for is about as close a universal "right" or "desire," I think, as we can come politically.
Someone here might wish to play devil's advocate, but still, I highly doubt that anyone here does not want to live in some form of republic or democracy and would rather live in an autocracy, dictatorship, or something of that nature. Again, I'd submit that's about as close to a universal political constant as you can get. The UN itself looks favorably upon the former and frowns upon states practicing the latter.
I will ask, though--who's "they" in "they don't?"
The regimes?
Probably so--I doubt Kim Jong-Un wants a true democracy.
The everyday people?
May we go out on a limb and say they'd rather, if not necessarily live in a democracy (as if you've lived in a totalitarian state like North Korea your whole life it IS entirely possible that you may be so indoctrinated that you do come to want to be lorded over, though the legitimacy of that position might be undercut by the fact it had to be achieved through state propaganda and often physical or other such means of coercion) then at least live in a state where they're afforded basic democratic freedoms such as the right to freedom of speech, thought and assembly, all of which are strictly controlled or banned in states like North Korea?
To take it another route and to another region--if it's a far-religious-right that mandates the wearing of a niqab (and if a woman wants to wear it freely and of her own volition that's fine, but surely we can agree citing "cultural differences" is not justification for forcing women to cover their face or wear body-length garments if it IS against their will, especially in states where 100-degree heat is commonplace?) or the forced circumcision of clitorises, etc...
Do we really care what "they" (meaning those autocrats in charge) want or don't want? A human rights violation doesn't cease to be so just because a state says it doesn't want to embrace a 21st century morality and would prefer to stay in the 12th century and allow women to be treated accordingly?
(And to be fair, I'd say the same thing of a Christian or Jewish state practicing such things...again, cultural differences and an ancient set of texts doesn't make "honor rape" any less of a horrifying oxymoron--with the emphasis on MORON for anyone who says otherwise--and to defer to what "they want" and allow such a thing to occur is not only hypocritical and indifference to the point of cruelty but pure moral cowardice.)
All that being said--yes, we cannot "bomb them into democracy," as it were, or to borrow the Rousseau, "force them to be free."
THAT being said, however, and keeping in mind just how flawed and corrupt our own democratic/republican states are here in the West, nevertheless I see absolutely no problem taking action against regimes that are tyrannical, oppressive and in cases violent or even genocidal.
While I don't think we had to stay in Iraq as long as we did, and while I would have preferred we went in with an international coalition, nevertheless I don't begrudge Bush's deposing Saddam Hussein. I'm clearly no Bush fan--everyone on this forum can attest to that--but regardless of motive, if he had simply gone in and deposed a man who was responsible for genocidal action against the Kurdish people and WAS a tyrant, and we hadn't stayed for longer than we were involved in WWII...
I daresay I would have thought more highly of the man, and I think a good portion of the nation and international community would have as well.
Call it a flagrant abuse of political power--
I'll take that any day if it means deposing a man who'll allow for the deaths of tens of thousands in genocidal actions without batting an eye.
Gunboat Diplomacy isn't popular (outside our little forum, of course) but Teddy Roosevelt wasn't entirely wrong when he said to "Speak Softly and Carry a Big Stick."
What use is speaking softly if you don't back it up now and then with the big stick?
Even if you wanted to argue the ends don't justify the means morally...fine.
That's politics.
Immoral actions and dirty hands are a cold hard reality of the business.
I'll take dirty hands and philosophical immorality if it means deposing a leader like Saddam, or stopping a leader like Kim Jong-Un and allowing millions of North Koreans basic human freedoms and dignity (not to mention enough to eat), or ending a regime that allows for any of the mistreatment of women I cited above.
Up above someone said two wrongs don't make a right.
Maybe so, but sometimes decisions don't boil down to being either/or and an action can be, in one sense, wrong and another sense right--it may be wrong to play The World Police, but if it means millions of women won't be forcibly circumcised or be raped and then put on trial as if it was their fault or watch their families die just because of an ethnicity...
I repeat, it's sheer moral cowardice, allowing injustices such as those to occur just because you don't want to get your hands dirty.
A democratic state that allows its democratic and humanitarian principles to stop at its border in the name of "cultural differences," oil imports and fear of terrorist reprisals is not a state which is one to be proud of at all.