jmo,
I will address several of your points here:
1) Your e-mail to me was not as you descibe it. I will paste below with some annotations:
"We've been contacted about a stalemated game, http://www.webdiplomacy.net/board.php?
gameID=115271. The player who is Germany says he refuses to attack Russia, and asks that the game is drawn. Since there appears to be a very solid stalemate line in effect the request is reasonable. [1] Do you have any strategy to advance your position in the game? [2] If so please let us know, otherwise please draw the game. "
[1] This represents your opinion. There was a stalemate line whereby I could not get 18 centres. However, germany's hold on STP was NOT a stalemate line as it could have been broken by France and Italian coordinated moves. You misrepresented the situation.
[2] At the time of your message I did not have a strategy. However, there were at least 24 hours remianing in the phase and sometimes it does take time to formulate an idea. I do not think about my games constantly and actually last night after I had hastily drawn the game to avoid moderator discipline, I did have an idea about how it could have been done (an idea that was shared by Party in this game).
Secondly, I have been e-mailing zultar at his personal address for a good period of time now. He has e-mailed me from this address as well. I do not mean to "out" him here as I am sure your venge-filled personality will attempt to get him "impeached" for this, but it appears that he and I were both OK with this method.
Now, after I explained the above to you in my e-mail (stated simply that he can ask zultar about this issue). I receive this:
"If you do not offer any information on your strategy for this game, or appeal my request to the moderator email the game will be drawn. "
To which I respond, here on this thread: do you believe it would have been appropriate to force draw the game without contacting France?
And, some more general questions that I believe the community deserves answers to: Why did you feel it was necessary/appropriate to contact Italy in that game before confirming stories with France? Why did you feel it was important to make contact with any players at the time you did (or, why did you not feel the need to wait a phase or two longer)?