@ Orthiac
Thank you for your considered reply, I would respond as follows from the perspective of a geochemist rather than a biologist!
1) You write: - ''We are socially conditioned to certain responces, and the genetic explanation probably fails on it's own, but given your request that someone show you the gene, i think i have to point out how unfair this request is.''
I am afraid you misquote me, I did ot write gene but rather gene(s), a crucial difference I think that you will agree, which affects much of what you subsequently write. It is funny how we all (myself included :-]) somehow conspire to see what we want to see.
2) Your argument elsewhere seems to revolve on the interactions of out genetic makeup with the prevailing and, largely temporary, environment. I do not take issue with you on this, it is classical stuff, often forgotten by many ignorant 'evolutionists', particularly some Social Darwinists. Where I am unclear, however, is whether you remove some human behaviourial patterns from any genetic constraint and, if so, why.
3) The idea of the ''group'' (hunter gatherer, family, nation state, race -??) as an evolutionary driver interests me greatly. Ultimately, given sufficent environmental pressure, this must result in speciation, wouldn't you agree? And if so what implications might this carry, for the human race in particular.
4) The idea of memes I find very problematical and, to be frank, a classic example of the evolutionism to which we both refer. Please note I do not argue with the idea of cultural transmission; I just query the application of natural selection to the process. Dieter Lohmar, I understand, in particular is very good on this although he does not use the word evolutionism ( I am keeping that one for myself!)
5) What do you exactly do you mean when you qualifiy 'evolutionary' with 'beneficial'? Given mutation is random and given that chanes in the environment are random, isn't the whole process itself essentially directionless? Today's succesful, adaptation may will be tomorrow's recipe for disaster, under a different environmental regime. I think that words such as beneficial and forward etc. in the context of evolution are essentially emotive and have no place in the discussion. Just one of my little hobby horses :-]
Thank you again for your considered reply.