Oh man, as always I don't see a thread until it's knee-deep in personal attacks. Well I've actually done a bit of research in this area (previous to this thread, not because of it), the chances of any life developing on our own planet, much less intelligent life are smaller than you might realize. I won't get in to specifics, but it is truly staggering all the slim, by-chance, events that caused us to evolve as intelligent beings. However, the true scale of the interstellar realm is often underestimated. In our galaxy alone I would argue that there is life on other planets, without a doubt. As for intelligent life, a whole new group of factors come into play, but I would still guess that right now, there are other self-meditative organisms in our galaxy...and they are probably carbon based.
However, an important factor you've overlooked so far is time scale. Our sun will last another 7.5 billion years as a main sequence star. However, it will only support life on earth for another 1.5 billion years. In stellar evolution, this is quite short. On top of that, you must allow a star's terrestrial planets about 1 billion years to form, and at least another 4 billion for them to resemble anything that could potentially bear life. As star's age they grow larger and this heat their surroundings more, so if a star has a main sequence life of, say, 12 billion years, it would only be able to support life on any planet within reasonable distance for, perhaps a third of that. Factor in the time it takes for a planet to form and develop into a life-supporting entity, and this leaves a sun-like star only about 3 billions years, maximum to support life on any given planet...and that's assuming that the development of the planet and age of the star match up just right.
So short answer...yes, there is life on other planets, yes there is intelligent life, but more importantly there has been much much much more life that has grown, evolved, contemplated life on other planets, and died out long before the earth was even born....also we will probably never experience any meaningful communication with other intelligent life...distances are just too vast, even if we somehow came up with some kind of light-speed travel...which has been proved impossible.
So there's you astronomy lesson for the day.