denis, denis, denis...why can't two gay men or two gay women get married? marriage means more than hetrosexual sex. let me respond to your 2

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A: marriage, unsurprisingly, has changed through society for thousands of years, much like everything else. divorce is kind of a recent phonomenon....perhaps if we are too outlaw gay marriage, we should also outlaw divorce, in order to protect the traditional understanding of marriage 'the bond between a man and a woman'. Presumably this bond should not be broken, no?
B: who says men are not supposed to have sex with men? there used to be laws like that, but they don't exist in the Western world anymore. Who says it's impossible? Have you tried? or are we going back to your traditional understand of sex between a man and a woman? if B is a rationale for only hetro marriages, perhaps we should outlaw pre-marital sex, altogether then, and adultry, etc. because that also attacks the traditional values of marriage.
maybe while we're at, we should outlaw women from having jobs, because they should all be the mothers of our children and raise our kids because that is also traditional, and we need to protect our families.
LJ Taylor - gay marriage should never be put up to a referendum. the majority population which enjoys rights like marriages (straights) should not be voting as to whether to give the minority rights (gays), it's counter-intuitive. if this were the case, then inter-racial marriages would never have been allowed, and blacks and women wouldn't be able to vote, etc.
the biggest threat to marriage is divorce. divorce has totally reshaped marriage more than gay marriage ever will. divorce also has the potential to destory familys much more than gay marriage ever will.