So, this will be a bit long. The story starts last Saturday night. I was at a church event. There was this attractive girl there, who I’d seen around the church but only said a few words to before. She started talking to me. And it was going well. She seemed interested. When she had to go, she gave me her phone number without me even having to ask, and told me to text her later that night. So I did. And when we were texting, she said “I just wanted to say, you’re super handsome”. I was a bit speechless, but I managed to text back saying she was pretty. In a bit I asked her if she wanted to see a movie with me. She said her parents wouldn’t let her go out with a boy alone (she’s only 14 [yeah, I know]). I saw her the next day at church, and there she asked me to see a movie with her and a couple other people. I said yes of course. In between church and the movie, we sent some flirtatious texts. During the movie, we held hands most of the time. After the movie, we sent some more flirty texts, she asked me if I wanted to hang out at the arcade with her and some other people on Monday. Of course I said yes, and we did, and we held hands there too, and we almost kissed. I was really starting to like her of course. Today, I called her after school, and we talked for two hours until my phone died. Then we started chatting on facebook for a while, flirting some more. And then, right when we were close to making it official that we are dating, her ex-boyfriend messaged me on facebook.
Now her ex-boyfriend is a good friend of mine from our church. So in general I trust him. Apparently he found out about my relationship with this girl, and he wanted to tell me why they broke up. He says she cheated on him. Not only that, he says she cheated on at least 2 other guys as well. So now I don’t know what to do or what to believe. I had been feeling in love with this girl, and now when he sent this, I just don’t know. I don’t know whether to believe him or not. I sure as hell don’t want to believe him, but even if I don’t he has now planted a seed of doubt in my mind, and even if I do date this girl, and she never cheats on me, I’ll always have this doubt. And I hate it. I feel like I can’t love this girl as much as I might have, and I’m not even sure if I should try to love her at all. I’m really confused.