Don't ask a specific person, but get three or four who are willing and give them all the password so you don't know who exactly got in and it won't destroy the anon aspect of the game. That or ask a mod to find you a replacement.

If they are in good standing I'll happily take it

There is no password, it is a world game, I can just post the link on here, but then people would know that I am in the game (but not necessarily know my country)

Yeah, you lose just a little of the anonymity, but it is for the good of the game.

of course you can join the game. a cd is much worse than knowing a player there shouldnt be any metagaming if the polayers have any class

LordVipor, when you post the link just indicate that someone PM'd you and asked you to invite since you aren't in that game. *wink*

Or you can PM someone else and ask them to do the same for you.

In either case, since you posted this thread already, you've blown both those options since it'll be obvious.

Unless you can find more than one public world game that has a CD in which case you can post links to all of them. Of course then you might not get someone in your particular game.

lol, so complicated. I dont care about giving up my identity in game, I just want to make sure I'm not breaking any Metagame rules or whatnot that might get me banned

alright, here is two, lets fill them up :p (I may or may not be in either or both)
http://webdiplomacy.net/board.php?gameID=36669
http://webdiplomacy.net/board.php?gameID=36073

imo, it is not poor form. I have taken up a dreadful position under similar circumstances.