Chrisp, the feeling is mutual, we annoy each other :P
There are times when there is no negotiation to do, and no reson not to finalize.
Every single phase will always be 24 (or other) hours long, so if you commit to being online at least once every 24 hours, you can finalize, and if you can't commit then you shouldn't have joined in the first place.
I don't mind people who don't finalize a given turn because they're busy or have reduced internet availability on weekends or something, but when players absolutely positively never finalize, even when they have to make a single retreat that has no option but a single space, I must admit, it annoys me quite a bit.
Of course, we are each free to play as we choose, so I wouldn't call someone on it, but I'm free to be annoyed. :P