ssoren - while I totally understand where you are coming from ( you express my father's point of view), I must disagree with you.
I really need to get to bed -- I'm beat -- but basically whereas before we had two, maybe three otpions: Friend, Acquaitence, Nobody. Facebook and the interlinking of relationships has created a broad spectrum of relationships that make the spectrum of relationships not trinary, but truly a vast spen of option.
I'm fascinated and overjoyed to see my cousin's friends come out and express their love and affection for him in his death. In a way, it affirms my feelings for him, and gives me comfort, in a way that I would never experience without this *truly bizarre* social experiment that is facebook (now social monument).
And....hate to tell you this, my friend....but though you hate Facebook, you are **deeply** involved in social media **right here** on WebDip. When I come to Chi-town and eat dinner with you, I will validate that statement.