As for judging...ugh, that is such a misused verse. We judge one another all the time. We correct our children when they are wrong. We *should* support each other when we see one another failing - which means we judge them. Hell, Draug, I personally have thanked you a few times for you calling me out in some of my more offensive raging drunk moments..and in part because of people like you I am sober today. THANK GOD you judged me, buddy!
"Judging" in that verse has nothing to do with identifying things that are wrong. AND, in "judging" the Catholic church, if you want to call it that (I reject the use of the word), I am judging an organization, not another human. So, misapplication of the verse and the word.
JUDGE as used in teh verse means:
1) to separate, put asunder, to pick out, select, choose
2) to approve, esteem, to prefer
3) to be of opinion, deem, think, to be of opinion
4) to determine, resolve, decree
5) to judge
a) to pronounce an opinion concerning right and wrong
1) to be judged, i.e. summoned to trial that one's case may be examined and judgment passed upon it
b) to pronounce judgment, to subject to censure
1) of those who act the part of judges or arbiters in matters of common life, or pass judgment on the deeds and words of others
6) to rule, govern
a) to preside over with the power of giving judicial decisions, because it was the prerogative of kings and rulers to pass judgment
7) to contend together, of warriors and combatants
a) to dispute
b) in a forensic sense
1) to go to law, have suit at law
It is not the simple act of saying, "hey, you are wrong here and need to correct yourself..." It is a definitive statement. "Draugnar is evil and going to hell" would be me judging you. Saying, "Draugnar says some wrong things" is not judging you, it is a statement of fact. Judging is a stamp of overall "character" if you will allow the use of the word.
Hebrews says "Encourage one another daily so that they may not fall to teh deceitfulness of sin" (I think I misquoted, but it's a close paraphrase). MEANING...when you see someone struggling with sin, you support them so they don't fall victim to that sin. It's pretty hard to support someone to prevent their sinning unless you are first "judging" that their is a sin that needs to be guarded against. And again, personally speaking, it was those around me that "judged me daily" that helped remove a sin from my life...