Well, some of us took advatnage of the repressed housing market to buy our houses. My home 2 years ago cost nearly 175k. I bought it for 125k from a guy who bought it for 60k and renovated it, spending about 30k in new roof, hot water heater, furnace, A/C, plumbing, draining (sump pumps and drain pipes laid all around the basement and back of the house where the water comes down the hill we live on), interior walls (had a serious mold problem so got stripped of all sheet rock/dry wall and re "walled"), etc. He made a small profit and I got a nice house where my work is mostly taking plain jane walls or missing little personal touches (like a light I over the sink and a raised mini porch to make the step down out back easier - both of which I designed and built with my own two hands - or having the lower part of the backyard fenced in by pros) and making it a home.
Do I feel bad for the people who lost it. Kind of, but honestly, they shoudln't have gotten into a debt that put them at more than 60% of their monthly income. Of course banks shouldn't let them do that either. My house costs me less than 30% of my monthly *take home*. If people woudl live within their means and not borrow so much that they can't pay their bills off unemployment and/or kept 3 months worth of minimum living expenses int he bank (in may case, I keep 10K there just in case) then they wouldn't be in the situations they get into. In short, be responsible with your money and your money won't fail you even when a job does.
And as far as it being your job... If your married, your wife is not your property although you call her your wife. My job is my employers job that they let me do and pay me for. Remember that and adopt that attitude and you will get far in life. I don't own my wife. I don't own my clients. I don't ownt he street I live on (well, I own part as a taxc player) although I call it my street. Putting "my" in fornt of soemthing doesn't transer ownership of it to you.