No problem. My name on Catan.com is ninjaj...my avatar is a chick, though. It's sorta funny but I created the female avatar because under my old avatar, I saw that guys would target other guys before they targeted a female, even if she had the same number of points and more dev cards or a better setup than her male counter-parts, especially if she was talkative (wink wink).
@SD: FtF is the preferred way because talking can become a big part of the game and it's more personable. Plus, the online version has the drawback in that people have the tendency to quit if something happens that they don't like. I've cut people off when building roads and had them quit, some people have quit because you keep rejecting their crappy trade offers and others have quit because they are having their butt handed to you. You can always find someone to take their place but it does take time. Online, the average game takes about 30 minutes, give or take. I've completed some games in 15 minutes and others in an hour depending on how quickly or slowly the others take or if you have a bunch of people quit continuously.
If you decide to start an account on there, look me up, and if you're new, I recommend joining games already in progress that are waiting on subs because if you lose, it doesn't affect your record but if you win, you get the points. The drawback is that for your 'ranking', the number of games you start from the beginning has to constitute 75% or more of the total games you've played.