"you know old Bubba don't inhale" which, to me, was the *worst* offense Bill Clinton ever committed! I mean, the world of toking is generally a bunch of laid-back, easy goin' dudes and dudettes. Unlike the alcohol culture, in which it's more like, "Come on dude, have another drinnnnnk!" until you are stumbling drunk, the green culture is more like, "Hey Dude, wanna hit this?" to which you can either share in the smoke, or pass it on. Either way, it's generally a polite low pressure situation. So if accepted the joint/bong but did not inhale (meaning took a puff and wasted a big cloud of smoke) he was just being a douche and a poser trying to fit it/look cool, because it would have been perfectly ok to pass on.