You make your own goals. If you want revenge, take it. I'm just echoing what most people have already mentioned. I very much agree with Noodle on this one, and I applaud you for your wheedling. I have always respected a good stab, even in my direction, in fact, especially in my direction. Remember that you cannot please everyone, so please those who deserve it.
Oh, and figle, my actual objectives are 1. Win, 2. Prevent others from winning, 3. Draw.
Although to be honest, since I first published my objectives a few months ago, I have often created new goals each game so that I am not too predictable. As well, it creates some variety for me. But otherwise I see those three as the most noble of pursuits, though I respect the personality that differing goals bring to the game.