Who said the victim was black?
Anyway I really feel like a lot of our disagreement is on misunderstanding. internet tone and all that, differing definititions etc. I freely admit I have let emotions get the best of me here and kind of made an ass of myself. It is a very emotional issue for me so please try to understand that. Some of my 'venom' or... combative tone whatever, comes from the fact that I already know going to the police is an option. I personally having had a looooong list of incidents with racist toledo police, and the kind of rape culture in toledo, do not feel that it is the best option, specifically it was already tried. Has it been tried to exhaustion? no. But I already tried, and did not get good results. So, keeping in mind that the police are an option, I was looking for ideas on other things I could do. So when you insisted to keep going to the police, I should have said calmly, I'll keep that in mind, do you have any additional suggestions? Not try and show you why that is not the best course of action. Because then we just get into an argument about cops and we all know where that will lead, esp with me. So, an attempt to get this back on track at least a little, thank you for your suggestion. do you have any other suggestions?
PS I posted the link because mafia mentioned how few here seem to know what it is. It wasnt directed at anyone in particular, rather general tone of various comments in the thread