"they can make decisions, sure, but rarely do their decisions have the outcome they anticipate."
Hamilton, I do not think that being unaware of the outcome of your decision means you did not make a free decision.
"If you say he simply doesn't act on the knowledge then he has chosen the path that the universe is taking through willful inaction."
Pandarsenic, you may have just convinced me that God cannot allow free will, even if he wanted to.
Anglican, it is of course easy to think that God knows all possibilities, but does not affect our decisions. In a limited sense you'd be right, but I think this argument actually goes beyong meanings of words as you assert. Since God knows what we will do if he does nothing, he is allowing it. Basically, he can alter whatever he wants. He alters only certain things. Therefore he has hand-picked a certain outcome. He did not write our decisions out for us, but he did set us up so that we would make the one that fits in his plan. So in a sense of Christianity, if I were a Christian, I would have to say that God pre-destins us.
All of that aside, inside Christianity or not, I think that it is really foolish to believe in destiny, fate or luck. Because if you consciously believe in them, then your actions may be altered in a negative way. In fact, they usually are altered in a negative way.
On a different note, most girls my age were raised watching Disney films. Disney films preach destiny. They preach that Prince Charming is fated to come to the Princess and that it will work out. Therefore girls my age also believe, indeed, they are brainwashed to believe, that fate says that Mr. Right will come to them eventually, and that they should not have to take proactive steps towards achieving this end, no, it will simply come to them.
This is a plague. It makes them verifiably unhappy because they are likely to end up alone that way. I tell them all the time, if you like a guy you've got to talk to him or nothing will happen, and they respond, no, if it's meant to be, it will be.
That is bull. I hate that. It's not true and they never listen to me. So all I know about fate and free will is that you'd better believe in free will or your life will be pretty miserable. It doesn't matter so much which one really exists, it matters more which one you apply to your life.