"And it is not a tiny minority. The afghanis don't want us there. They are murdering our people all the time. "
The Afghanis, writ large, are murdering your people all the time, huh? Not a tiny minority?
Let me subject this statement to a statistical evaluation.
2,009 American soldiers and support staff have been killed in Afghanistan, and 16,277 have been wounded. That totals to 18,286 attacks. Let's assume that each death and injury was attributable to combat (or murder, if you prefer), and each one attributable to one Afghan.
If you combine the estimates of the Taliban, al Qaeda, Hezbi, IMU, Haqqani etc militants fighting in Afghanistan (many of whom are not actually from the country), they come out to between 70,000 to 100,000. Let's assume the largest estimate.
The population of Afghanistan is 30.5 million people.
That means that even in the most liberal of estimates, only 0.0033% of Afghans have taken up arms against Americans, and only 0.00059% have actually successfully attacked an American. Of them, only 0.000065% have actually murdered an American.
Meanwhile, 55,000 American soldiers have committed suicide during this same time.
I could do this same exercise, except with Afghan civilians killed directly by American soldiers or drones... it would not look good.
To further put this into perspective, note that 192,230 Americans have been murdered during the same period of time the war in Afghanistan has been going on. http://www.disastercenter.com/crime/uscrime.htm
The US population has had an average population of 299 million people over the last decade from 2011 to now.
That means that by the same metric I used earlier, roughly 0.00064% of Americans have murdered another American during the same period of time as the War in Afghanistan.
What's the conclusion here? Well, the same proportion of Americans are murdering Americans as Afghans are attacking American soldiers, and TEN TIMES more Americans are murdering other Americans than Afghans are killing American soldiers.
Blaming the Afghan people writ large, the vast majority of whom are poor, impoverished, apolitical, unarmed for the atrocities of so few is simply incorrect. To imply that they are are all guilty and should all be bombed is inexcusable.