"You're a crazy person." Ouch! My feelings are hurt. I think I'm going to cry!
Let's look at the Declaration of Independence: "these united Colonies are, and of Right ought to be Free and Independent States". Note that "States" is plural. If Jefferson had been talking about a unified American nation, why would he not have said so, instead of talking about numerous independent states (I will point out again that the word "state" meant then and to an extent still does mean an independent nation)? Note that Jefferson didn't say "constituent parts of an as yet undefined independent nation" or even "ought to be a Free and Independent American Nation". If that's what everyone was thinking at the time as you insist, why didn't he write it so?
You are correct that Rhode Island ratified (on a vote of 34-32) after the Bill of Rights had been ratified, and while all government-approved textbooks claim this was the reason, the truth is a little more complicated than that. Ratification took several votes, and was only successful when several anti-Federalists weren't present to vote (in other words, if everyone had been there, it never would've been ratified). Remember as well that the vote was successful only after it was obvious that Rhode Island was going to be excluded from the newly-created free trade zone which the Constitution and its member states created, which would've been death for Rhode Island's economy (the chief pushers of ratification in RI were the merchants). Also, when Rhode Island ratified it also demanded that 21 additional amendments be approved; number one was this:
"I. The United States shall guaranty to each state its sovereignty, freedom, and independence, and every power, jurisdiction, and right, which is not by this Constitution expressly delegated to the United States."
(http://www.usconstitution.net/rat_ri.html) Now why would an administrative subdivision (as you are suggesting the states were perceived to be) be demanding a guaranty of "sovereignty, freedom, and independence" from the government that embodied this American nation you're convinced everyone thought they were a part of?
"While New Hampshire and Georgia were and are radically different, they were still more like each other than like France or Holland or even Canada. That unity shows a nascent nationalism. The colonies declared independence together, after all."
The fact that two countries are 'alike' in some way does not mean they are the same country - otherwise, independence from the English-speaking mother country would've been pretty pointless and the hundreds of constituent states of the Holy Roman Empire never would've been, well, constituent states. And the colonies didn't declare independence together; some states declared independence before the main declaration, and one colony (Florida) remained solidly loyal to Britain throughout the entire war.
"You're dead wrong about armies." No, you misread what I wrote. I didn't say that Congress did not have the authority to raise an army in the Constitution. I said it declined to do so for several years after the constitution's adoption, and many were opposed to the concept entirely (as I mentioned, one of the two amendments that didn't make it into the Bill of Rights was a prohibition on standing armies in peacetime). And I'd like to see a cite for your claim that the mlitias were funded by Congress and not the states themselves.
"You again show your craziness by referring to the Civil War as the War of Northern Aggression." The term 'Civil War' is a serious misnomer. Historically, a Civil War is when competing factions fight for control of a particular country. The War of Northern Aggression was in fact a war of aggression by northerners who wanted to keep southerners from exercising their rights to self-determination. Jefferson Davis never said he wanted to replace Lincoln as President of the United States of America. The southern states were trying to exercise their rights to remove themselves from a union they'd voluntarily entered into. You obviously believe that states have no legal or moral authority to secede; if that's the case, where did they get the legal or moral authority to join?