Well, maybe a little debate on a Friday afternoon might be fun.
First, I made no comments about your personality. I remarked a commonality of the comments you posted but said nothing about your personality, real life or online.
Second, it's hard to conceive how it was a "referendum" as it was one remark and I did not ask for a vote or even other people's opinions.
Third, I'm not sure how your comments, even the one in this thread prior to my post, can be construed as constructive critiques as they are just criticism and nothing about the different kinds of CDs or any solution to such. If you are talking about my remark, I did not say that I was making a constructive critique.
Fourth, let's logically walk through your comments about resigning. How do you define "games that drag on and on?" What makes a game dragging on and on? If other people are playing them, even if little "progress" is made, it could still be a worthwhile game to them and they might still enjoy it. In the games that you resigned, are they games where you are doing well or are they games where you are not? What was it about them that made them dragged on if diplomatic exchanges were still taking place, or was it because things were taking place but they didn't include you? Furthermore, if someone decides that a game is dragging on for them, is it fine/reasonable for them to quit if the other people in the game are still playing? If a person quits in the game, should the other people quit too as a rule? Should they quit if the person leaving makes little to no difference to how the game will play out? What should be the general process for people to follow through if anyone decides to resign during a game?
Fifth, your opinion about who "win through cheap games" seems to be causally problematic. Is resigning a part of the problem if these people win cheap games due to resigning? It seems to me that if people winning "cheap" games due to resigns is a problem, then resigning is a source of the problem and not a solution.
Sixth, I don't have to say anything about wins, cheap or not, as I was addressing a comment in the thread. If the OP, however, thought that I derailed his thread, I would happily leave the thread.
Seventh, I don't understand how I can leave you out of it when you address me and it read to me like you were waiting for a reply. Moreover, are you asking that I should not address you at all or that no one should address you at all if you made a comment that they disagreed with?
Eighth, this is one of the very few and rare times I have interacted with you on the forum, so I am unclear how that makes me like Obi, who apparently -according to your last sentence- seems to address you all the time or disagree with you or pull you into conversation. It is amusing to me that it was you who pulled Obi into this conversation when he had nothing to do with it.