Voting is overrated.
More important in a democracy are such things as freedom of the press, freedom of speech and equality between men and women. I'd much rather live in a hypothetical society where I have no right to vote (say... Holland in the 19th century, where only people who payed a certain amount of taxes had the right to vote), but where I have access to objective journalism and where I can speak my mind, rather than in a society like, I don't know, East Germany, where elections were held, but the process was so corrupt, they were absolutely senseless elections.
The idea that democracy means that people immediately have to start voting for all sorts of things is a major mistake on the side of western policy makers. We see this in Egypt, about which I wrote earlier, where the muslim brotherhood took power in parliament and also had the Presidency representing about 52% of the people and then took to writing a new constitution for Egypt where they failed horribly.
It would have been much better for Egypt to bring the best and brightest of the land together (some captains of industry, some professors who were known internationally for their work, a judge with a good reputation etc.) and have them write a constitution through what I immediately admit is a highly undemocratic process. The people could then send a representation to Cairo with the sole purpose of finding a 67% majority on any constitution.
The paradox is that the process I describe above would be described by many as undemocratic, because 1) these experts weren't chosen by the people and 2) an overwhelming 65% majority would still not have been heard, but it would probably have let to a good compromise constitution rather than the mess we see now.
That's why voting is overrated.