Nothing I said earlier in the thread is incompatible with what I said just now. Your constant badgering and attempts at character assassination aren't particularly impressive.
To be slightly tongue in cheek, what is far more impressive is that a brother of mine can be so single mindedly committed to creatively defending uncreative traditional thinking.
@abge
You say things vary in their degree of commonness, I agree in a particular sense, in the pragmatic sense. Gunshots in Syria have less in common with my lifespan in that visceral way than do those in New Orleans.
But this is only a narrow view. This is the view that still sees objects as separate from each other. Take the moon for an object. It's nice and full out my window. You might argue the earth and sun effect it more than say Sirius and an alien planet do. Certainly there is an everyday sense in saying that.
But, only if you implicitly accept that the moon is actually a distinct object at all. Is it? How do we define it? Already this question admits that its identity as an object comes from human definitions rather than a physical reality, but let's proceed with the question. It is the satellite of earth, that mass of rock out there. But if you go to it's surface with a powerful microscope, you may see atoms bunched together against space. Look a little further in and you will see that there is a lot of empty space between the atoms. So, a random piece of space dust floating one foot from the surface - is this part of the moon? One mile? One picometer? And how about time? When did the moon become the moon? At what moment when it ripped from earth's mass in ancient history did it become a separate object? When will it stop being the moon?
"The moon" is just a human label of convenience. We should not pretend "the moon" and that blue-white glow out my window are the same thing.
So if the moon has no distinct as an object, neither does any object. All suffer from that same problem. Except one. The Object. The one that contains all the others. This is the answer to the Many Worlds question. The real "universe" is the sum of all those worlds, all those "observable universes", all those simulations within simulations, or whatever metaphysics you believe in. This Totality contains all of that. And of course such a thing exists. The second anything exists, it exists. You might simply call it Existence, but we have already seen the failings of names.
But anyway, knowing this, we are left with some important lessons. Such as: selfishness is a delusion. Property is a delusion. Negativity is delusion (existence is positive, not negative). Suffering is delusion (perhaps your stomach hurts, but that same phenomenon is a boom to your stomach bacteria).
And on and on. The more specific I get, the further off the mark I am though. The core of it is the important thing - if no objects can be distinguished, degree disappears, distance disappears, magnitude disappears. "The last shall be first, and the first shall be last."