Thanks again Obi. It's sometimes hard to find good debate about this topic and you make some good points but I feel sick to my stomach with others. I'm doing my earnest to make you see another side of this and maybe change your perspective. I was once very adamantly pro-Israeli but got fed up when I realized the stark gravity of the situation here. This most recent flare-up I think is the most egregious on Israel's part as Hamas had been making strides towards real unity and peace up to it and now all that is broken once again.
To get something out of away initially is this idea that Hamas is the "Tea-Party" wing as you say in one post and wants to kill as Israelis no matter what. This I would say is a misguided view that demonizes them unnecessarily which makes conceding or changing your perspective on other, more reasonable points nigh impossible. Understand that Hamas is a democratically elected governing body for a people put under intense pressure, some of whom have been born and grown up in an environment that has only known war and aggression with Israel. Extremist language is going to be natural in this atmosphere. That does not meet it is at all sincere or total in its commitment. If Israel cannot negotiate with Hamas because of extremist language in their charter (which is largely intended to shore up votes at home. Remember, all politics are local), then it would follow that no nation on Earth should be working with Israel because of the Samson Option. You have to identify these as the extremist and widely unrealistic pipe dreams that they are. Hamas will never have the capability to destroy Israel or all Israelis and it's simply not fair to pin this as justification for continued aggression and keeping of the status quo.
As well, Hamas is not responsible for all rocket fire from Gaza nor all criminal elements there. There are a few other militant groups outside their control, like the Palestinian Islamic Jihad, which Hamas has attempted to work against and stop their ability to fire rockets. And Israeli general has come on recording stating as much:
http://ca.reuters.com/article/topNews/idCATRE5AC3H820091113
Just in January of this year Israel observed efforts by Hamas at curbing rocket fire
http://www.jpost.com/Middle-East/Report-Hamas-deploys-troops-on-Gaza-Israel-border-to-deter-rocket-fire-338844
To say they SUPPORT the rocket fire in times of ceasefire or calm is patently dishonest and against Israel's own observations.
Now, I'd like to point out a major disparity in your reasoning. I think this can be chalked up to you viewing the two sides as equivalent parties, on equal grounds in terms of their level of aggression and ability to do harm. This is not the case and it is evident in your arguments that you make tact apologies for one side while giving no lenience to the other. Here are your statements:
"-the reason for so many casualties is because Gaza is like trying to fit a 25lb. steak into a 5lb. bag. It's just far, far too dense, and because neither Israel nor Egypt wish to open their borders to Gazans fleeing the fighting (because both Israel and Egypt fear attacks/hate Hamas) there's an incredible, atrocious amount of collateral damage."
"I'm not really sure you could, as packed as Gaza is, wage a war against Hamas WITHOUT having such huge casualties...it's just too densely-packed..."
"I again disagree, and the seeds as to why are planted in your own response--Gaza is so densely populated that I'd argue it's essentially impossible for Israel to simply or exclusively target Hamas specifically and not have collateral damage. There are too many people crammed into that tiny Strip, and with the borders shut on all sides due to the fear of Hamas...well, hitting innocent Gazans is almost inevitable, frankly."
"Whether or not you think that's OK is going to be up to you...but I don't think it's collective punishment so much as unfortunate collateral damage. At this point, I am inclined to agree with that utilitarian point of view--it's going to be a high death toll, but this CANNOT continue. "
vs.
"I again disagree, as this is again a point which I disagreed with previously--shooting rockets at civilians is not only not a civil manner of demonstration, recourse, frustration, or any of those descriptors, it is likewise not, in the era of social media, the "only" recourse."
"The rocketing from Gaza must stop--period. It is unlawful, it is immoral, it is futile as per Game Theory (I will address the points people touched on there in a bit) and furthermore, there ARE other methods..."
"but in terms of "weakening" Israel? I think it's safe to say that after years of Hamas doing this and, indeed, decades of the Palestinians in Gaza at large doing this...
Israel's not weaker. It's a damn strong country. Arguably it's stronger now, because these attacks encouraged the US to help Israel with the Iron Dome, and that's made these rocket attacks all the weaker and, because Israel has faced fewer casualties, it's in fact arguably encouraged them to go all the way this time and launch this ground invasion with the possible end of ousting Hamas entirely, even if it costs hundreds of lives."
So you see, for one side, attacks which are largely symbolic and have a casualty count you number on two hands are completely unacceptable, have in fact made Israel stronger, and there are other forms of more acceptable expressions of rage that can be pursued.
But for the other, attacks against high density targets, where innocent deaths are inevitable, and routinely number in the hundreds, are acceptable because why? Are Gazan lives worth less than Israelis? Should the Gazan people suffer for being caught in the crossfire between Hamas and Israel? Why are these attacks, which are not parity in any way, civil for one side but not the other? What justifies civilian deaths for Israel but not for Hamas? Why is going to social media an option for one but not the other? Israeli gets its cake and can eat it too? Your reasoning here raises many troubling questions, and I think it's more troubling that you view Israel's response as "restrained", believing a total, potentially nuclear engagement or all out massacre would be...more appropriate? justified? It's hard to read but I don't think you're giving equal credence to the death of innocent lives here. Hamas may be stationed in Gaza and may have equipment there, but that does not justify murdering innocents and routinely destroying civilian infrastructure to stop attacks that are already rebuffed by the Iron Dome, which do not disproportionally impact Israelis, and which could be resolved in other ways.
To quote you, the bombing from Israel must stop. It is unlawful. It is immoral and it is futile. As long as there is Israeli aggression and young, hot blooded young men in the Gaza strip, there will be militants and there will be rocket fire. The only way to change this is, as I've stated, for Israel to change its overly aggressive and heavy-handed policies, and work with the Gazan governing body, no matter who it is, to crack down on the criminal elements that do fire rockets in times of ceasefire and calm.
"I'd ask for some kind of statement or other such point as evidence to that statement...I've mentioned and cited Hamas' desire to kill any and all Israelis, and I have backed that point up, so it seems only fair that, if the IDF is going to be accused of not having any qualms killing civilians, that likewise, there should be some kind of evidence or citation to that end."
You've said it yourself. They bomb high density areas where civilian deaths are inevitable, and have no problems doing it. Besides there, there are a number of recent examples we can cite:
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/middleeast/israel/10971306/Israeli-naval-ship-bombs-Palestinian-children-on-Gaza-beach-killing-four.html
http://www.haaretz.com/news/diplomacy-defense/1.590861
http://www.jpost.com/Defense/PLO-outraged-as-video-shows-deliberate-execution-of-two-Palestinian-teens-by-IDF-352797
http://www.jpost.com/Operation-Brothers-Keeper/Two-Palestinians-killed-in-overnight-raids-by-IDF-360157
The fact is in the course of searching for the three missing Israeli teenagers, which the Israel government knew from the start were dead (http://www.globalresearch.ca/israel-palestine-netanyahu-government-knew-kidnapped-teens-were-dead-as-it-whipped-up-racist-frenzy/5390628), certainly more than three Palestinians were killed by the IDF, not counting those children murder and mutilated by Israelis in retributive attacks.
"The PR battle matters to Israel because it has an economy and international interests to worry about...what the hell does the international court of opinion matter to Gaza PRACTICALLY when that court of opinion does next to nothing and Gaza itself is ablaze?"
Gaza would have an economy, and the international community would make efforts to help Gaza, if it was not blocked by Israel at every pass. You state later that....
"Ignoring the loaded language there--not counting this war (I think it's fair to say war has a different standard of conduct than peace) I think Israel is extremely strict, but not strict to the point where I'd sue the "under their boot heel" language"
Israel is effectively sieging Gaza and currently has it under occupation. These are indisputable facts. They are control the majority of Gaza's borders, they blockade its ports, decide what materials can go in and out, and if they had your way, they would also decide whether its government was acceptable or not. Israel has Gaza completely under its boot heel, to be pressed and lifted as they please. Gaza does not assert this sort of control on Israel, no matter how many rockets they fire.
"I disagree for a variety of reasons, one of the most prominent being the fact that while the West Bank is very attractive land in terms of development, Gaza really is, essentially, a ghetto. No one wants to live in Gaza...heck, a lot of Gazans don't want to live in Gaza, especially with conditions the way they are now. Israelis want to take the West Bank land for potentially-religious as well as economic reasons...
Neither of those apply to the Gaza Strip, which holds no religious or cultural importance and is likewise of no economic interest...who would want to give up life in the Israeli mainland (or even trying to steal land in the West Bank, for that matter) to try and settle a ruined, impoverished, ghetto of a place that would still likely have hot spots of terrorism?"
You're right, who would want to give up living in Israel to live in a land Israel has pounded into dust. The point is that the West Bank is endemic of a situation where Israel has more thorough control. Israel polices the West Bank, they are weaved into its government, and we see the result of that. They steal land and murder protesters without repercussion. It's hubris to say they would not do the same to Gaza because Gaza is worthless. The point is Israel wants land and they want control, and they will take it however the please, no matter how long it takes.
"As a final point, the UN representative on CNN just said that more displaced Gazans than ever have sought out UN shelters, because so much of Gaza is a target...and part of the reason for that is because Hamas has made so much of Gaza a target. The IDF, whatever others may think about it, DO go through the trouble to document what's hit."
Gaza is not a big area, and the people of Gaza have no where to go to escape Hamas. It's great that they document what was hit, but that does little to help refugees seeking to flee bombs and now advancing military tanks, but who are continually turned back into this violence by Israel itself and certainly Egypt (who's new government isn't the nicest of people if you've noticed).
As I've stated, Hamas is only the side effect of Israel's continued violence on Gaza. Not just in the form of bombing, but in sanctions, occupation, segregation, blockade, and a million other microaggressions that extend beyond military capacity. Hamas will continue to fight because that's all they have, and the Gaza people will be inevitably chained to that. Efforts to change this status quo, through ceasefire, UN recognition, and formation of a unity government were all derailed precisely because they were not done on Israel's terms with Israeli permission. THE ONUS THEN is on Israel, the dominant player in this situation and the one incapable of seeing change without it itself performing it, to change th