@aha "The difference between you and me is that i dont want to ban you but you seem to want to ban others. "
Actually, i don't want to ban anyone. I may have defended the mod's actions, but i was enjoying tearing Leon's position apart, and am saddened that the original thread was locked - precisely because it was "Sure, the original post was bad, but the thread as a whole was **ENTIRELY PRO-TRANS**""
"Now onto the rest of the paragraph. I think leon has the right to say that and it isnt degrading at all. He isnt disrepecting anyone."
He has the right to be wrong, yes. But again, the mods of the webdip forum don't have to humour him.
Lets be clear - 'freedom of speech' as defined by the US constitution is 'Congress shall make no law ... abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press;'
It says, that your freedom to express yourself shall not be controlled by the government. That entirely allows private clubs do whatever they want - so long as that is not hte law of the land.
Now i might prefer a free-er forum, where i can tell Leon why he is wrong, or mute him so i don't see his wrongness. But the webdip mods have decided (after years of discussion and trialing) that this is not in the best interests of the site.
"He isnt disrepecting anyone. He just thinks it isnt valid." - He is saying a person isn't valid. That something about their identity is not real - this is treating them, and their experience without respect.
Like someone came in and said, 'i have heard the good news' and you're like, 'fuck you, you're delusional, jesus didn't come to you in the night, lolz'.
When you disregard someone else's experience, based on nothing but your lack of that experience, you are disrespecting them. Which entirely fits YOUR definition of 'degrading'.
@'. Prove to him he is wrong if you think he is. ' - if you had looked at the thread, you might see that i have done just that.
"As for the last line, it might suprise you but he doesnt need to experience it. He can look at facts, pictures and objective statistics. All of that doesnt disrepect anyone only highlights points in a debate. "
He can, and his facts and statistics, as described in the thread, are incomplete, and fail to embrace the diversity of human experience. The biases through which he views that data (which i also addressed in the thread) are blinding him to a world where that experience could be valid.
Or to put it more directly, he thinks the data backups up his position, because he doesn't understand what he's talking about - having no experience of what the data is describing.
"All of that doesnt disrepect anyone only highlights points in a debate." - it is entirely possible to be disrespectful in a debate.
Add to that the fact that this is not a debating site (despite my enjoyment debating here for many years) and the mods are entirely entitled to lock threads as the see fit.
Could he debate this topic in a respectful manner? I doubt it, his point of view in inherently disrespectful and that is all he seemed to be interested in 'discussing' (though again, he never replied to any of my points, so it wasn't actually a discussion - unlike what we are doing here).