"Rutte coordinates government policy and chairs the council of ministers."
Which is a big deal in America. Here, you're just another minister. IMO at least.
"You're still a representative democracy, just a parliamentary one."
True. However, minor parties get a minor vote when it comes to executive stuff for example, while in America it tends to be a bit more that either the Democrats or Republicans rule. Our system is much more accurate in representation IMO. I mean, it seems much more likely to me that some law or something that is actually supported by a minority of the people gets through in America than here, because here we're not quite 2 parties everyone has to choose between. If you don't like any of the current parties, you can realistically make your own party and have your own influence on government here, which doesn't seem the case in the USA.
There are merits to both systems though, but I remain thinking that Rutte doesn't really make decisions for the country.
So if a coalition misses one vote, they need to change their proposal in such a way that the animal lovers join them for example if they want the law to go through. Laws are to be adapted to precise demands until a majority supports them, which is not just the party that won the last election but the coalition that can find agreement on the law in question. Wether you consider that a good thing or not is your choice of course.