James, are you joking? On your drivers' license, you have this little button in the corner that classifies you as an organ donor. Most people are organ donors. Everyone should be an organ donor. Regardless, you have the right not to donate your organs. Why? It's your mother fucking body. You might be dead, but it is still your body and you still have autonomy over your body. Ten other people who need something that you have might die because it's your mother fucking body, but it is still your mother fucking body. Those ten people may be heroes. They may be soldiers or firemen or volunteers with Doctors Without Borders, I don't give a shit. Still your body.
So guess what? The question of whether or not a fetus is dead or not is irrelevant, because bodily autonomy trumps the life of another human being, no matter how old they are, child or adult, man or woman, hero or convict. It does not matter.