Well, I'm never convinced that there is no hope for me. And if people don't respond to me, or ask me to please finalize, or anything at all...
Well... I feel like I owe them very little.
It's not that I don't want to play, it's that I want to play to my dying breath, and as a result drag my feet until I've exhausted every possibility.
Essentially I'm just spiteful to those who ignore me. :P
Perhaps its juvenile, but I'm not going to stop doing it.
Also, it IS allowed by the mechanics of this form of the game, and I see no social contract anywhere saying that one needs to finalize as early as possible whenever they can to provide for others convenience.
I regard a deliberate NMR, and deliberate CDs as far, far, far worse transgressions of the spirit of the game.