I'm gone for a day and the conversation left me behind. This might be going back a bit.
Anyway, I argued that the universe must have been created by something outside of what I have experienced, which I called supernatural.
To clarify, that does not necessarily mean god. Something naturally occurring but unobserved could also be responsible.
My point was to refute the argument "God is supernatural, supernatural things are extremely unlikely or impossible, therefore, God does not exist." Something unlikely or seemingly impossible happened, so God is not an unreasonable assumption for creation.
Sorry for bringing that up again, but I thought that I needed to clarify what I said.
Now that I got the last word in on that subject (ha!), I like the distinction between soft and hard Atheists. I've been arguing against hard Atheism, not soft. I have yet to see proof against God, so I will not deny his existence. Similarly, I have not seen proof for God, so I won't affirm his existence.
I do agree that Atheists can live happy, purposeful lives, and that the idea that they can't is not only wrong, but a bad argument. You aren't saying, "believe this because its true," you're saying "believe this because it will make you happy."