Thucy - I'll refrain when yo shut the fuck up with your demented psycho babble. You have a perverse philosophy on human relationships that is - per your admission a few months back - based upon your self-guilt at how much of a fucking douchebag you were as a kid. So when you quit trying to change us all into you, I'll relent.
You were an asshole...and there is a damned good chance you are still an asshole...only a more educated, arrogant asshole.
What you are NOT is wise. Your life experience, as best I can tell, is surreal. It is a privedledged white kid childhood....in which you acted like an asshole...and then you saw the light...and you took your priveledged white ass over to Africa and pretended to care about the natives for a while pretending to be uncomfortable, etc....only the whole time you pretended to play pagan you knew the good old USA was waiting for you....etc etc....you have a very interesting life, no doubt....but it bears little resemblance to most other people, and it is laden with your white guilt.
Well...most of us don't have your white sexist racist guilt, because we are not the racists and sexist assholes that YOU WERE....and most likely...deep in the dark recesses of your perverse mind...still are.
So when you start shouting about how we are ALL treating women badly....I get to tell you to fuck off. Because I don't treat women badly...AT ALL. I'm fairly well loved by the women I work with, I well loved by my wife of 20 years...I get along with women just fine, and I hire them just as easily as I do men in my work place. What I don't do...EVER....is treat them like men, though. I acknowledge their uniqueness, and they appreciate that.
You don't grasp that. You admit that "femininity" is a female trait...and then want to tell me that treating a woman like she is feminine is a sin.
You are just a fucktard. You kow nothing of life and relationships. All you have is psychobabble bullshit from your text books, because instead of learning about people by being with them, you decided to learn from a book, and then every experience with people to you was just a thought expirement, like your "I used to sit with old black women every thursday in a hut..." bullshit you used to talk about. What a moron.
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To YJ....yes, I love you too, cutie.