Yeah. Don't stress CM. I'm a college student and sure there are lots of skanks but plenty of normal down to earth girls who are looking for a serious relathionship.

The crucial bit being jumping into bed "with you". I'm afraid just getting them to jump into a bed doesn't really earn you much kudos. A mere spider can achieve that.

Haha, touche.

@Tom: Well that's good, but now this thread is starting to make me doubt if that's what I really want.......
Maybe casual dating is what I need? It seems good, there's always potential for it to become long-term, there's sex, and you can have multiple 'girlfriends' at once. At least that seems to be what casual dating is from what I've read of it. What do you know about it?

CM, shed the shackles of terminology. Forget facebook's limited definitions of gender and relationships. Spread the love.

It's not that easy. Sex may be good but a relationship is complicated. But sex is good.

Multiple girlfriends at once is a one way ticket to a world of pain, my friend. Far more trouble than it's worth. Much like the use of food during sex, the theory is so much more fun than the reality. Things get squashed, you get unpleasently sticky, and before you know it you've lost a strawberry and have no idea how to get it back...

"Much like the use of food during sex"
Unless that food is pastrami - the most sensual of all the cured salted meats.

I bow down to your superior knowledge, Yonni. Personally I find food is far more useful when used outside the bedroom. Give a Turkish girl bacon for breakfast, and she's yours for life!

What Octavious said is true. Good friend of mine fed his "Muslim" girlfriend bacon, and she about had an orgasm on the spot.

I might add that she's as bad of a Muslim as he is a bad Catholic... i.e. not at all anymore.

The old adage is true: "sex without bacon is like a pencil without a sharpener - pointless." My girlfriend was a vegetarian Jew before I met her.

You morons shoudl read the shit you are writing here. You are the same fools that attempt to mock me??? lol Grade school sex humor is your form of entertainment here....and you mock me? THANK YOU for demonstrating your utter hypocrisy, you jackass fools....and you know who you are. lol I can only laugh at you right now...lol sad mother fuckers...

@ConservativeMan:
"I believe morality is absolute. The things that 'change' (like attitudes on sex) were never really a moral issue to begin with."
You are 100% wrong about that. Seventy years ago "unmarried mothers" were treated as being mentally ill and locked up with the insane. These days they're given their own flat and gov't handouts. Forty years ago living together was immoral, hotels would turn unmarried couples away. These days most people live together for several years before getting married.

Octavious: +1 for the strawberry. I almost sprayed coffee all over my computer!

Dude I can't believe you think polyamory is a-ok but you think a i-dont-know-your-name 1 night stand isn't

at least in the latter no one gets hurt

LOL @CM.
Putting the implications of multiple gfs aside, get a date first and then a gf before you start thinking "Hey, I can date multiple girls."
Seriously, you are 15-16 with self-confidence problem and a bit socially awkward. Just try getting a date or two first.

@speaker: Unmarried mothers is NOT a moral issue. Society's opinion is changing, yes, I'm not disputing that. I'm only disputing that the issue has anything to do with morality. In my opinion, morality is absolute, and is defined as: anything that hurts someone is wrong (which I'm sure, well I hope, you'd agree with), and anything that hurts God is wrong (which I'm sure you won't agree with, but whatever). Sex isn't really a moral issue.

@zultar: I was talking about in college.

@CM, I think someone has already said this to you: don't worry about the future when you aren't living the present. Smell the roses now. Live now.
As for the issue of morality, it can't be so strictly defined because there are always circumstances, real or hypothetical, that will break the boundary and there are always epistomological problems regarding the words themselves. For example, you say that morality is defined as anything that hurts someone is wrong. Well, what does "hurt" entail? Is that physically, mentally, emotionally, long term, short term, and so forth? Since you haven't defined or established the parameters of "hurt," it is an ill-defined term that may or may not mean the same thing to all of us, and when you do define hurt, you will be hard pressed to do it without needing to define other terms and/or involve the concept of morality in its definition, which means you'll run the issue of circularity. Moreover, there are plenty of circumstances where you can hurt someone physically or in the short run but you mean well and your action helps the person in the long run. Is that "morally wrong" then?
To say that morality is absolute is to run into many brick walls, some of which can't be crossed philosophically or even quantum mechanically. You run into other issues too if you say that morality is all relative. Life and all its inherent problems and beauties is not so easily deconstructed. Otherwise, we would have done it already.

@ Thucy: "Dude I can't believe you think polyamory is a-ok but you think a i-dont-know-your-name 1 night stand isn't

at least in the latter no one gets hurt"

Who gets hurt by polyamory?

@jamiet: Well if people try polyamory who shouldn't be trying it (i.e. people who get jealous easily), then someone could get hurt. But if the right people do it, no one would get hurt. One night stands, on the other hand, can definitely hurt people.

If it hurts then you're probably doing it wrong.

Yonni +1

CM: From my (limited) experience, a lot of the fun of a short term thing (one night stand) is that there aren't any judgements or expectations. Both parties can feel free to get their freak on without having to worry about if the other party is going to be weirded out.

It can be fun, but I wouldn't personally do it routinely.

The one night stand part. The feeding a hot Muslim girl bacon... do that all the time!

Variety....intensity....new and fresh. feeling someone touch you in a different way than normal...and feeling your hands trace the soft curves of a different body....feeling a different kiss....a new smell...and new flavor....

God damn it, if this is what we're going to get from now on I want the old krellin back!

Hmmm...what *would* it be like to kiss Octavious???? :P

It is an experience more powerful than you could possibly imagine... so probably best if you don't :p

@Conservative Man: You're 14 years old. Surely you have better ways to spend your time than talking about hypothetical sex on in an internet forum? Live your life, please.

@Jack: I still wouldn't feel comfortable having sex with someone I don't even know.