@Crazy Anglican, Several thoughts to respond to:
religious freedom as a good thing: yes... a weakness of the Soviet regime was the attempt to destroy religious faith... a weakness of some religious regimes (such as some in the Arab world) is the attempt to purge the population of non-believers... and those who don't believe the "correct" faith. Freedom of religion is freedom to believe as you see fit... including not believing... Freedom of religion is central to a secular nation. ...and central to a successful nation, more often than not.
birth rate as a show of strength: a very odd measure... by that measure Haiti is a strong country at a 3.54 fertility rate... as is Afghanistan with a rate of 7.07, Nigeria with a rate of 5.32, Somalia with a rate of 6.04, etc., etc. Whereas countries such as Switzerland, Japan, the U.S., the U.K., Germany, Hong Kong, and South Korea are abject failures with rates all currently below 2. The argument back to evolution is weak (but all too common)... if it was simply about birth rate, then the dominant species would all be insects... though I guess one could argue who is dominant... but there are many ways to be successful evolutionarily... And for many, a focus on quality child rearing rather than quantity seems to work out just fine.
How do I define success?: Well, that is a slippery thing... happiness, prosperity, community, security, leisure time... I couldn't put it done in a simple way... and I realize and respect that success means different things to different people.
Does religion blind people from rationality?: no, not really... though I do see religion itself as irrational... but that doesn't prevent people from being rational in other parts of their lives. None of us are rational in every respect, that is for sure. The other day my Mormon nephew asked me if I thought that religion and science can coexist... I answered, of course they can, by definition... because they actually do in practice all the time. But that doesn't mean that they aren't contradictory to each other in some basic ways, and perhaps ultimately corrosive to each other. One demands evidence in order to believe something and the other revels in believing something with no hard evidence - only a feeling. Seems like these two approaches are pretty incompatible... but we see them coexist in people all the time.
the 19th Century rhetorical device issue: yes, I see what you are saying... I do think that the spread of secular societies over theocracies* is a good thing... and I believe there are examples of each kind of society that seem to support my view... but, there are certainly examples across the board that muck up any attempt at making a sweeping conclusion. (*by theocracy I mean in a broad sense... any culture that has a particular religion woven into the power structure so that other views are not tolerated as much or not at all... not necessarily that the church power structure itself is directly running the country)
Yes - there are many things we can agree on. Religion/atheism nor any other philosophical differences need not get in the way. Those who are totally intolerant of other views tend to start to look the same to me... the actual views being fought for dim in contrast to the violence utilized toward their ends... Similarly, we can disagree - but we are both civilized (as we are as a community here). What we have in common, civility, is more important than the details of our philosophies.