@CM - I know plenty of smart 10 year olds out there, and a win+draw of just 24% and a total defeat of 50% is hardly "semi-successful", but I won't push that issue as success, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder.
So, you live in America, I assume. If so, most states will allow you to get a lerner's permit at 15 and a half so you can go take the road test on your 16th birthday.
But seriously, research a variety of societal types, understand them throuroughly, then pick one you think boht works and fits your moral compass and we'll talk more.
Also, find your moral compass. Your beliefs right now are influenced by your parents and the people around you. It's the nature of peer pressure at your age and there isn't anything you can do about it, except live your life and search for your own answers.