ssoren -- I wasn't calling you out, bud. YOu were just the example I used because you were the one who made the post I was referring to, which referenced meta-gaming.
I was in no way suggesting that you have not had cause to eliminate me in past games. You did, and you did. I'm not upset about that at all. But to deny that you and I BOTH use our knowledge about each other to frame our negotiations...and likewise that, given two equal opportunities to work with each other, or work with a stranger, we may be inclined to choose one another, for the known evil instead of the unknown....
....well, we ALL meta-game. And that's OK. That's reality.
As for my abrasive ways causing me to be targetted -- I have been told on more than one occassion BY the people attacking me that they were attacking me, and making a worse strategic decision in so doing, simply because they dislike me. It's just continuing proof of my long-hel belief that this gaming site is populated by a vast pool of emotionally immature people....so be it, I know it, and choose to be here.
But the overall point is that meta-gaming is a fact of the game.
IN the context of leagues, therefore, to complain about meta-gaming and manipulating alliances from game to game is....well...it's silly.
It's no different that in the NFL, when a team has its playoff position locked up, they may sit their best players in the final game to prevent injuries. It's a LEAGUE, and the games MUST be taken in the context of the greater scope of the league as whole, not as individual entities. I'm trying to win the LEAGUE set of games, not any indibividual conflict.