MajorMitchell: your aspect is certainly one I didn't think through and I'm happy you've shared it. My choice of opponents, however, is not fueled by snobishness, rather my inherent personality, which doesn't like surprises at all. I don't like surprise parties, xmas gifts, cancelled meetings, uninvited visitors, and so on, I never did. While I know other these in real life and I can accept that, I was never able to enjoy such situations.
For me the challange to overplay those who I know are very good players is motivating. Also to bring out new solutions where everyone thought there aren't any better ones drives me to play. Like I just invented a new Russia opening which seems working pretty well, as I so others copying it in recent high pot games.
I guess our approach to this game is fundamentally different and roots in real life. That doesn't make any of them better I suppose, I was just explaining why I'm not up to small pot games.