It seems like a mark of civilized people, not only that they moderate their own behavior, but more importantly that they are able to weather the storms of those who do not. From the perspective of someone who doesn't have the time or energy to get too emotionally invested in the forum here, I'd interpret brainbomb's post above as an apology for his drunken mistakes. As one who has been forgiven for greater mistakes than this, and I for one am willing to forgive him for whatever happened. I'm rather glad to see how many people feel that they have a vested interest in seeing things run well on webDip or webDipMaf, so it seems to me that the solution might be to direct that positive energy towards building and repairing relationships. That might include "cooldown" hiatus for ourselves, if that seems to be a constructive solution personally or for any relationships made here. We are a civilized people, and can weather this.
That said, I'm in for beginning m20 whenever, noting that I have to work around a real life schedule. Thanks to brainbomb for what looks to be a really fun setup, and thanks to flum and yoyo for continuing to GM. Thanks really to you all, complete strangers, for coming together to organize and play a fun game.