@Steephie
“What if they haven't reached that state yet?”
I’m not sure where you’re going with that. If it hasn’t reached the state to develop religion or philosophy than it probably wouldn’t have much bearing on my worldview.
“Which God?”
From the OP, I presumed everyone would be speaking about his/her own.
“Finding life and finding culture are two very different prospects.”
That’s true, unless we are speaking about bacterial cultures
“I would be surprised if any culture we did come across didn't follow the same rules we see on earth for systems.”
I am not sure why. Our systems reflect our environments to a great degree. An abundance of resources have been shown to cause quadrupedal apes to adapt by walking on two legs so they can carry more. Residence of different worlds would have to adapt to quite different environments.
“Like systems where 'individuals' are not free but controlled by chemical signals (al-la ants colonies/ bee hives)”
Well sure, hive species have long shown up in Science fiction as some of the most formidable adversaries. The Borg (of Roddenberry’s “Star Trek TNG”), The Bugs (of Heinlein’s “Starship Troopers”), and The Formics (of Card’s “Ender’s Game”) all show deadly efficiency in battle and show us that having a community of individuals could be woefully ill prepared to take on a community that acts instinctively as one. Card goes farther in showing that a mistake in the estimation of another race’s sentience can have horrific consequences for both the judged and the judge.
The next time you pull weeds from your garden, remember it’s a genocide from the weed’s perspective.
“systems where 'individuals' are policed for inappropriate behaviour and put down if they deviate from norms (like cells in a body) etc.” Likewise there are hundreds of dystopias in literature as well. Not actually what you were referring too, I know, but that was the first thing that came to mind in response.
“We have hundreds of such systems”
Sure and I don’t discount them at all. I’m not sure what I wrote that made you assume the opposite. That’s precisely what I was talking about. Yet, I disagree, that the systems would necessarily be the same. I am certainly not aware of the biology surrounding sure systems. I am thinking along the same lines of Carl Sagan when he famously addressed the science fiction idea of sex with aliens. “You’d have better luck mating with a petunia, at least you evolved on the same planet with it.” It seems that he's suggesting that vastly different environment could result in vastly different systems.