Says who? Who makes you the arbiter of what "socially liberal" is.
Funny thing has happened these days, particularly in youth culture and liberalism....when you don't like something, you simply redefine the terms. Take a commonly understood word, and simply say it means something else.
Now....when you combine the two statements I made, you are probably talking about "libertarians".
I assume that you are going to tell me that "socially liberal" implies how you spend you money. I will tell you that this is wrong. Because that's how *I*, and many, many others, choose to define terms.
I'm socially liberal. I think you should be able to lead your life however the fuck you want. i.e. when it comes to "social issues", I don't really give a fuck you what you do, as long as you stay out of my way, and don't invade my rights.
What YOU, I am certain, are going to tell me is that "socially liberal" means that when some poor chump refuses to get a job, refuses to educate himself, etc etc etc...he should have shit given to him. That isn't "social liberal". That's *retardedism*. That's socialism (not really).
But....if you want to talk about "safety" nets as part of socially liberal, I am all for "safety nets". A safety net means that, when you fall, I'll be there to catch you....JUST AS LONG as you get your lazy, fucking ass OUT of the net as quickly as possible. Because, as soon as you land in my net, the timer starts....
I'm all for brotherly love and helping a guy out.....what I....and many other "socially liberal" and "fiscally conservative" people are NOT for is the idea that "social safety net" somehow means I have to apply a generous amount of lube to my ass so you can fuck me over for the rest of my life and take away the fruits of my labor, without ever asking the tit-suckers that are stealing my fruit to ever reach a point where they are providing their own fruit.