My advice to young chaps would be to wait until you are a bit older before contemplating Marriage.
Give yourself the chance to get a proper education, and get your career started,
travel, & find out who the hell you are, what you want to do / achieve.
Also start stacking away the cash, get some investments going.
As i remark'd earlier, women are damn expensive to care & maintain & it won't just be financial costs, there is a huge emotional investment that you will have to make.
SO, wait, and don't just marry the first woman that gives you a decent headjob etc
Be selective, don't get stuck with a dud one
Honesty, Caring, Thinking, she will need to have these basic qualities
Be ruthless, do not accept second best
I think a good plan is from age 17, work, travel have fun, but don't get tied down
for 20 years.
That gives you plenty of time to get the financial resources well sorted
Then swoop on a fine young filly with the good character, well bred, chaste & pure,
still innocent and train her correctly.
most couples set the "established expected behaviour rules beteween themselves"
very quickly whilst in that first dizzy romantic stage, and a lot of young chaps let the
woman get her way in too much of this stuff.
for example. it's great to be together, but you both also need time apart
so if the bloke wants his life to be one where he can start most days with a dawn assault on Her Indoors, then off to the Golf Club play 18, then spend a lazy afternoon having a punt on the gee gees & a few drinks with mates, returning to hearth & home,
squawking kids and everloving wife at whatever time suits him,
.... without having Her Indoors ringing you up to find out "when are you coming home ?
and get some milk and tampons.."
Then you will need to start training her from the start.
you'll have to knock over all her "complaints"
eg i was worried about you---- well i am an adult & can look after myself
& be prepared to make her cry occasionally
from the start you will need to employ a housecleaner for her,
With kids etc you will need to employ nannies & tutors
you will also have to indulge your woman with expensive trinkets, lingerie, flowers
& a myriad of clothes, cosmetic & "health" products etc etc
she'll require a sports car first then a decent saloon if she's a city type,
or hobby farm with stables and horses and a suitable vehicles if she's a country lass.
It's no surprise the divorce rates are what they are
so don't be one of those saps who rushes into and out of two marriages by 45
and is emasculated, financially crippled and doomed from then on.