@Hunter49r, a cousin of mine got an abortion early on - when she was 18 and living with her mom and had just broken up with her alcoholic boyfriend (a month before she realized she was pregnant). She went on to graduate college, is gainfully and happily employed and happily married with two children - who are well adjusted and well taken care of. She sees the fork in the road and the path that she took and the one that she avoided, and she doesn't regret her decision (though she fully realized/realizes the gravity of the decision). I can totally see why. Had she gone down that other path she would have had a radically different and far less successful and less happy life... and the children she now has - who are wonderful - would not even exist. See - even well before she became pregnant with the children she has, they were potential children as well.
Nature (genetics and hormones), left to its own, can abort fetuses when conditions are not right... but nature fumbles about and only knows about conditions today... is there a famine - today. Our knowledge, our insight (though imperfect) gives us a longer view... we can see ahead years... this sort of insight is what drives us to go to school, for example (or build houses, etc.)... we know what happens if we don't do something - and if we do. Had nature (our genetics and hormones) had this longer view it would surely abort this child of the absent alcoholic father while the mother is uneducated and unable to support herself and would have to quit school and work a menial job. Yes she was not in a famine at the moment (but only due to the kindness of others), but the choice, to someone with a longer view than her hormones had, was clear. You do your best to do what is best. I do not think that leaving things to chance (hormones) is the best way to run a life. Granted that given our ability to make choices that sometimes people make unwise ones... but that should not be a reason to avoid making decisions when you have the power to do so. I understand that the response to that is that she already made her choice (via hormones, once again) by having sex... well sure, that was a choice... but would you suggest that once a choice is made one should never ever reverse direction? That would make for some pretty poor outcomes wouldn't it?