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Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 1:37 am
by Fluminator
Is this app supposed to suck?
Every girl has 2 of the following:
1. #Daddygang in bio (what does that even mean?)
2. Dog picture/ Dog momma, and claiming to only swipe right on dogs
3. Nose piercing (no hate but they all have the exact same thing.)

And they all claim to love hiking which I call bs.

I matched with one and we argued over the proper way to play super smash bros and she got offended and unmatched.
A few more matches just ask me to add them on insta or snapchat (ummm no)
A couple don't message.

What happened to my generation that this is a popular app?

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 1:51 am
by e.m.c^42
Lmao

I think this says more about 1) what the algorithm thinks you like, and 2) what you've done to make the algorithm think so, rather than the quality of the people who use it.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:21 am
by Nephthys
That's cause you're doing it wrong.

Ask them for recipes.

I haven't had to think about what to cook in the last three months. I love it.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:26 am
by RagingIke297
You guys are getting matches????

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:45 am
by brainbomb
dont use tinder. Ill find you a nice nebraska girl. you just gotta pretend to love the huskers

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:58 am
by Chaqa
I don't see what's wrong with adding them on Snap or Insta that's way more likely to continue the conversation.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:06 am
by Carl Tuckerson
Fluminator wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 1:37 am
Is this app supposed to suck?
Every girl has 2 of the following:
1. #Daddygang in bio (what does that even mean?)
2. Dog picture/ Dog momma, and claiming to only swipe right on dogs
3. Nose piercing (no hate but they all have the exact same thing.)

And they all claim to love hiking which I call bs.

I matched with one and we argued over the proper way to play super smash bros and she got offended and unmatched.
A few more matches just ask me to add them on insta or snapchat (ummm no)
A couple don't message.

What happened to my generation that this is a popular app?
Are you a 6'3" doctor and/or lawyer with a six-digit salary, a full and well-maintained beard and generally masculine facial features, and the ability to take photos of yourself in your gym gear that make you appear to have the physique of a Greek god?
If not, yes, it's supposed to suck.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:08 am
by Carl Tuckerson
Chaqa wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:58 am
I don't see what's wrong with adding them on Snap or Insta that's way more likely to continue the conversation.
Why would you unnecessarily jump through an extra hoop to talk to somebody who is supposedly already interested in you?

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:26 am
by Chaqa
Carl Tuckerson wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:08 am
Chaqa wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:58 am
I don't see what's wrong with adding them on Snap or Insta that's way more likely to continue the conversation.
Why would you unnecessarily jump through an extra hoop to talk to somebody who is supposedly already interested in you?
I don't think you guys understand how Tinder is. You want to move the talking off Tinder as soon as possible, as:
1. It means they're interested (as opposed to just doing it for fun)
2. More likely to have responses, as a lot of people have Tinder notifications off, but not Instagram/Snapchat.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:33 am
by CLRJames
What happened to my generation that this is a popular app?
Atomization, probably. There are better dating sites though.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:39 am
by Chaqa
CLRJames wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:33 am
What happened to my generation that this is a popular app?
Atomization, probably. There are better dating sites though.
Such as?

I've had decent success with Tinder + Bumble.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:53 am
by Carl Tuckerson
Chaqa wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:26 am
Carl Tuckerson wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:08 am
Chaqa wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:58 am
I don't see what's wrong with adding them on Snap or Insta that's way more likely to continue the conversation.
Why would you unnecessarily jump through an extra hoop to talk to somebody who is supposedly already interested in you?
I don't think you guys understand how Tinder is. You want to move the talking off Tinder as soon as possible, as:
1. It means they're interested (as opposed to just doing it for fun)
2. More likely to have responses, as a lot of people have Tinder notifications off, but not Instagram/Snapchat.
The only place you should be moving the talking off Tinder to is a date, period. If you aren't closing you're wasting your time.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 4:45 am
by Chaqa
Carl Tuckerson wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:53 am
Chaqa wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:26 am
Carl Tuckerson wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:08 am

Why would you unnecessarily jump through an extra hoop to talk to somebody who is supposedly already interested in you?
I don't think you guys understand how Tinder is. You want to move the talking off Tinder as soon as possible, as:
1. It means they're interested (as opposed to just doing it for fun)
2. More likely to have responses, as a lot of people have Tinder notifications off, but not Instagram/Snapchat.
The only place you should be moving the talking off Tinder to is a date, period. If you aren't closing you're wasting your time.
My typical is to chat on Tinder a bit, then try to get their Snap or number (some are more forthcoming with one or the other). Setting up a date or a hangout is usually done from there.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 5:49 am
by Vaporwave
Tinder is known as the app for skeezy people

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 6:20 am
by BobMcBob
RagingIke297 wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:26 am
You guys are getting matches????
You guys are using Tinder????

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 8:44 am
by Durga
Carl Tuckerson wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:08 am
Chaqa wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:58 am
I don't see what's wrong with adding them on Snap or Insta that's way more likely to continue the conversation.
Why would you unnecessarily jump through an extra hoop to talk to somebody who is supposedly already interested in you?
9/10 I won't meet a guy off tinder unless I have his insta or something

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 10:02 am
by Matticus13
Durga wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 8:44 am
Carl Tuckerson wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:08 am
Chaqa wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:58 am
I don't see what's wrong with adding them on Snap or Insta that's way more likely to continue the conversation.
Why would you unnecessarily jump through an extra hoop to talk to somebody who is supposedly already interested in you?
9/10 I won't meet a guy off tinder unless I have his insta or something
^ Behold! Verification.

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 10:03 am
by brainbomb
Chaqa wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:39 am
CLRJames wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:33 am
What happened to my generation that this is a popular app?
Atomization, probably. There are better dating sites though.
Such as?

I've had decent success with Tinder + Bumble.
Describe your ideal first date:
I pull up in my Camaro. Slick back my hair. We drive up to lovers point. And make out. She compliments my leather jacket and blue jeans

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 1:36 pm
by Fluminator
I assumed most girls who instantly want you to add them on insta or Snapchat just want a higher follower count.

I don’t even use those. Insta is basically Facebook but more pictures right?

Re: Tinder

Posted: Fri Aug 23, 2019 1:43 pm
by Chaqa
Durga wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 8:44 am
Carl Tuckerson wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 3:08 am
Chaqa wrote:
Fri Aug 23, 2019 2:58 am
I don't see what's wrong with adding them on Snap or Insta that's way more likely to continue the conversation.
Why would you unnecessarily jump through an extra hoop to talk to somebody who is supposedly already interested in you?
9/10 I won't meet a guy off tinder unless I have his insta or something
Sup Durga want my Insta? :Kappa